I was too busy ‘being strong’ to really understand and connect with my wife’s feelings from infertility – that was until I found out I was infertile and then I suddenly got it. I was lucky enough to interview one of the world’s experts... There I was, living in a card box on the streets, lonely and penniless. Insecurity and imagination can be a lethal cocktail. Your imagination runs riot and before you know it you have gone from thinking about having to pay a bill to being imagining yourself... 